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Swimming with Sharks: Analyzing Encrypted Database Traffic Using Wireshark
Originally from percona.com/blog/feed/
September 8, 2025 • Roasted by Patricia "Penny Pincher" Goldman Read Original Article

Ah, yes. A tool to help us validate a new database version. How wonderfully reassuring. It’s like getting a free magnifying glass with a used car purchase so you can inspect the rust on the chassis they’re about to sell you. This isn't a feature; it's an admission of guilt. The very existence of pt-upgrade whispers the dark truth every CFO knows in their bones: an "upgrade" is just a vendor's polite term for a hostage negotiation.

They dangle these little "free" tools in front of us like shiny keys, distracting us from the fact that they've changed the locks on our own house. “Look, Patricia, a helpful utility to replay queries!” Fantastic. While our engineers are busy replaying queries, I’m busy replaying the conversation with the vendor’s Account Manager, the one where he used the word “synergize” seven times and explained that our current version, the one we just finished paying for, will be “sunsetted” next quarter. It’s not an upgrade; it’s an eviction notice with a new, more expensive lease attached.

Let’s do some of that "back-of-the-napkin" math they love to ridicule in their glossy brochures.

Vendor Proposal:

“Seamless Upgrade to MegaBase 9.0: Just $500,000 in annual licensing!”

A bargain, they say. Think of the ROI! Oh, I’m thinking about it. I’m thinking about the “True Cost of Ownership,” a little line item they conveniently forget to bold.

Here’s my napkin math:

So, the vendor’s $500,000 “investment” is actually, at minimum, a $1,035,000 financial hemorrhage. And that’s before we factor in the opportunity cost of having my best engineers fixing a problem we didn't have yesterday instead of building new products.

They’ll show you a slide deck with a hockey-stick graph promising a “475% ROI by Q3” based on fuzzy math like “increased developer velocity” and “enhanced data-driven decision-making.” My napkin math, which includes inconvenient things like payroll and invoices, shows this “investment” will achieve a 100% ROI on the company’s bankruptcy proceedings by Q2 of next year. The lock-in is the real product. Once we’re on MegaBase 9.0, migrating off it would be like trying to perform open-heart surgery on yourself with a spork. They know it. We know it. And they price it accordingly. Their pricing model isn't based on vCPUs or RAM; it's based on our institutional pain tolerance.

So, yes, it's a cute tool. A very useful tool for validating your path deeper into the vendor's financial labyrinth. It’s nice of them to provide a flashlight. But maybe, just maybe, the real goal should be not needing to venture into the dark, expensive maze in the first place.

Good for them, though. Keep innovating. I'll just be over here, amortizing the cost of this “upgrade” over the next five years and updating my resume.